My Homeschool Story

The lovely folks over at Home Educating Family are hosting a Not-Back-to-School blog hop every Friday this month! And there will be prizes! This week, we’ll be sharing our homeschool stories and you could win a one-year subscription to Home Educating Family Magazine! Be sure to look for details about the giveaway at the bottom of this post!

I’m a homeschool graduate, but I spent my elementary years at the local public school before my parents made the decision to homeschool my sister and me. My husband attended the same private Christian school from Kindergarten straight through High School graduation. We actually discussed how we would educate any children we might have back when we were dating. Home education was very important to both of us, and we agreed that we would teach our children at home.

Fast forward about ten years, and our oldest was four years old, and just itching to jump into “doing school”. I’d been reading and researching homeschooling methods and curriculum choices for a while. I was amazed at how many more choices there were compared to back when Mom was teaching me. I figured I had a pretty good grip on what to do and how things would work. After all, I’d been home educated, I’d been reading up on the topic, and I considered myself a reasonably intelligent person. On top of that, my very bright daughter was more than anxious to start learning how to read! This was going to be a piece of cake…

You know what the Bible says about pride going before a fall? Completely true.

Nothing, and I mean nothing went the way I planned. Munchkin loved books and doing as many activity worksheets as I’d give her, but reading would take tears and another two years to master. We may be the only family in the world who hated Hooked on Phonics. I had ideas for elaborate educational projects, but didn’t really take into account the attention span of my still-young child. Not to mention trying to figure out what to do with two and three year old boys when I was trying to work with their sister! Wasn’t this supposed to be easy?

Of course, home educating moms and teachers everywhere knew what I didn’t yet understand: Teaching is hard work! I took a step back, a deep breath, and looked for what God was teaching me about teaching.

We eased up. We still read books, and Munchkin still asked to do worksheets, particularly ones that had to do with numbers, shapes, and patterns. We shelved Hooked on Phonics and tried a different phonics program several months later.

I learned that our homeschool will not look exactly like anyone else’s. And that’s OK. God gave me wonderfully unique children, and educating them would require an approach that would probably be a little different from how other families did it. I learned to keep the ideas that worked, and not worry about letting go of the ones that didn’t. I learned that planning is important, but flexibility is absolutely necessary. Most of all, I learned to enjoy the ride.

Oh sure, there are still days where I think arithmetic might be out to get me. Some days are more stressful than others, and it’s still a lot of work. But overall, I enjoy my job as a home educator. I’m the one who gets to be there when they read their first book, learn to write their name, and all of the countless other firsts.

Now, more than ever, I am beyond grateful for the time and sacrifice that Mom and my tutors put into my own education. They gave me a priceless gift, and I pray that I can pass it on to my own children.

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17 Replies to “My Homeschool Story”

  1. Loved this intro! No you are not the only one who did not do well with Hooked on Phonics. I love that you were homeschooled yourself! Thank you for taking the time to do this!

  2. We are in our 4th week and I’m already humbled! I have been a public school teacher for many years and thought this will just be an extension – God has shown me HOW much more this can be. I have so much to learn and I am thoroughly enjoying my time with my family. Thank you for reminding me that every homeschool is different!

  3. Nicely said!! I feel about the same way:) There are some days I think I am crazy and others I truly know how blessed I am!!

  4. Like you, I attended public school as a child and finished up my schooling at home. My husband and I just began homeschooling our 4th and 1st grade sons this past week, and it’s been an interesting week. Prior to the start of the week, I thought, “Okay, I was homeschooled and made it through calculus and physics on my own in my high school years, I’m a college graduate, own my own business, volunteered forever in the boys classes, worked with my boys on reading, writing, math, etc that was given as homework from school (but was never actually covered in class)…how hard could it be to homeschool them??” Well, I know it’s still early, but I’m already learning just how hard it can be! : ) We’ll just take it one day/week/month/year at a time and continue to follow God’s guidance…and just enjoy it!

  5. Well I’m glad to know that we aren’t the only ones who don’t really care for HoP Julie! Thanks for stopping by!

  6. Yep, I have days when I think, “Is second grade too young for me to hire a math tutor?” But if I really stop and think about it, most days are pretty great. 🙂

  7. I love how home educating our children means they don’t have to measure up to what is “typical”. We get to choose what works best for them and and use it when they are ready. My problem is I’d like to skip all the “essentials” and just do art, music, history,and science!

  8. Thank you for the inspiration. This is my first year homeschooling my 7th grader. We took her out of public school for several reasons. She wasn’t being challenged, the bullying and her anxiety disorder. I am really excited to see the excitement about learning, which I never saw in public school. I know it is only week 3 but so far so good!!

  9. I have a passion for literature and writing, so I don’t mind teaching Language Arts. Math is another story altogether! Thankfully, my kids seem to have inherited their math abilities from their Dad! 🙂

  10. Congratulations on three weeks Pam! 🙂 I had a lot of school related anxiety because I didn’t “fit in” with the popular crowds. I found that homeschooling relieve that pressure and allowed me to make more friends. 🙂 I’m so glad your daughter is rediscovering a love for learning!

  11. Thank you so much for this encouraging airtcle. I have been having difficulty with this topic as school is starting up again. I could easily spend so much money on enrolling my children in side subjects like piano, sports or P.E., foreign languages taught be fluent speakers, specific art courses, etc. that we would not have enough food on the table. My husband has wisely closed the checkbook. We are not enrolling them in any outside courses. It is such a relief to be reminded by your words that my children have a lifetime of learning ahead of them! They do not need to learn everything there is to learn this year, or even in the next several years. Thank you again for your words of wisdom. May God bless you as you bless others.

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